Sometimes, A Parent is Disappointed in a Child, Without Understanding The Child's Disappointment In The Parent
Sometimes, a parent is disappointed in their kid . It's not that they don't love them, because the feeling of love is indeed there... but disappointment, perhaps fear: "Did I as a parent miss something? Could I have, should I have done anything different? Is it me who's to blame?"The parent takes those thoughts out on the child manifesting them as disappointment... but they deny it because how horrible is it to be disappointed in their child?The truth is, more likely than not, that kid is dissapointed in their parent. The parent turns to other outlets to deal with this, and they never think to develop a true relationship with the child. They do not understand that we all speak a different love language. We all speak one of 5 love languages , and sometimes a blend of a variation of those. Acts of Service, Physical Touch, Words of Affirmation, Quality Time, and Gifts. All these are valid and cannot be taught necessarily, thou...